Monday, May 30, 2011

Dear Graham, Weeks 41, 42 and 43

Dear Graham,
I feel like I begin every letter with talking about how many adventures you’ve had or how big you’re getting or simply how much joy you bring. And yet again, as I sit down to write to you today, those same thoughts fill my head. As I took a step back, I realized they are a good summary of your life itself: journeys, growth and love. Here’s a little more about each of those themes…



Journeys

We had quite the journey as you set out on your seventh round trip flight to Florida to celebrate your Grahamma’s college graduation. I have to admit, the first 12 flights were much easier than these 2. You’re so curious these days, always trying to explore your world around you. Which on an airplane, equates to the seat pocket. The barf bag. The magazines that you like to pick up and throw on the ground. All of which are incredibly clean and germ free. So, instead of taking a bottle and going to sleep like you normally do, you took a bottle, squirmed, sat up, tried to stand up, squealed and pretty much made wore out your mommy and daddy in any way possible.



On the way home, you were a bit more still, primarily due to the 1,865 puffs I fed you. Yes, I resorted to feeding you to keep you calm. It’s amazing what the pressure of 155 other passengers traveling at 550 miles per hour in a sealed aluminum canister with wings over the Gulf of Mexico will do to you.

While in Florida, we took you to the beach for the first time. As Florida babies, your mommy and daddy couldn’t wait to get your toes in the sand. You weren’t at all phased by the sand or the water, even when a little “wave” (or 1 inch of water) came toward you and knocked you down. You were just getting into the experience when a typical Florida afternoon thunderstorm came rolling in, putting an abrupt end to your first beach experience. The storm didn't stop us from grabbing some precious pictures first.







On our other trips to Florida, you didn't pay much attention to your Aunt Shannon's dog Rocket, despite Rocket paying lots of attention to you. This time, however, the roles were quite reversed: any time Rocket came near you, you would squeal and attempt to grab the dog. By the end of our trip, Rocket was staying a good length away from your grasp.



Also during our time at home, we were miraculously able to share a shuttle launch with you. I say miraculously because the fact that it actually was scheduled to launch on a date when we were going to be in Florida and then did launch on a date that we were in Florida pretty much has the same odds of you sleeping past 5:30 a.m.: 1 in a million. Here's a video of your experience:



Perhaps the biggest journey of all to mention is the reason why we were in Florida to celebrate: your Grahamma's graduation from college. While you didn’t understand the significance of the event, I don’t want for you to miss out on the important life lesson her journey represents, namely that you can do anything you put your mind to.

Growth
We had your 9 month check up and you’re progressing just as you're meant to. You weighed in at 21 lbs, 5 oz, which put you in the 58% percentile for weight, and 29 and 1/4 inches, which puts you in the 76% percentile for height.

This growth has caused us to have to move you to the next level of car seats. While my arms are thankful to no longer have to lug around your infant seat (although I have to say this works better than any gym routine I ever tried), this new milestone points again to how fast you're growing. You look so little in your new seat, yet I know it's just another blink of the eye before you'll fill this out too.



Your hair is growing longer too, and it's a daily guess as to what color it will be. I joke with your dad that you'll be the only baby with "IDK" as a hair color on your driver's license, but some days it's brown, some days it's blonde and it almost always has some red in the sunlight. You're sporting Hypercolor hair two decades after it was popular on t-shirts.

Just as important as your physical growth is your growth in mental capacity, and each day you are delighting us with the new things you discover. Over the last several weeks, you've taken to clapping your hands; shaking your head"no" (although thankfully you don't yet understand that it means "no"); "feeling" your touch and feel books that previously went unnoticed; beginning to use your baby sign language, specificially for "more" food; and waving "bye-bye", although not yet at the appropriate times.



Love
You are growing into such a big boy and away from being a baby, and while I want to freeze your growth, it's just so much fun to watch this change in you. Your daddy and I love playing with you, watching your delight in our silly faces and noises. You are a boy through and through...you love being held upside down, tickled and general roughhousing.






Thank you for bringing so much happiness to our lives.

Love,
Mommy

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Dear Graham, Week 40

Dear Graham,
In celebration of my first official Mother's Day, I thought I'd use this week's letter to tell you all of my current favorite things that make being your mommy so much fun.

  • The big smiles you give when I come in to get you out of your crib each morning and the subsequent hugs you give me when I hold you during those first early morning moments before the day's craziness begins. This is truly the best part of my day. (Although would it hurt to wait just a little later in the morning to share this special moment?)
  • Your recently-discovered ability to whisper and the way you barely whisper "da" "da" "da"
  • Watching you react to your Baby Einstein colors DVD when the little puppet in a red sequined cape comes on screen to unveil the color red. You don't quite know what to think about this character and are slightly scared...you start to barely whimper as mommy and daddy tell you it's all okay. When the caped character passes a few seconds later, your normal smiles return.
  • The way you squeal in delight, kicking your legs when I pick you up from school. This is the second best moment of my day.
  • Your studious exploration of all that is around you. Your daddy and I often wonder what you're thinking as you so deliberately focus on anything new that you encounter. It reminds us daily of how awe inspiring our world really is.
  • The way you suck in and bite your bottom lip.
  • You. Asleep. I sometimes still marvel in awe at the fact that you actually sleep through the night. You are a tummy sleeper, just like me, and I love to sneak into your room at night just to watch you sleep and listen to you breathe.
  • The fact that your hair is now long enough to blow in the wind when you swing.
  • The way you wrap your hand around my finger and hold on tight.
  • Your sweet kisses.


Love,
Mommy

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Dear Graham, Weeks 38 and 39

Dear Graham,
I have to begin this week's letter with telling you about the highlight of your short life to date: last Sunday, on Easter morning at sunrise service, you were baptized with your daddy. The day was one that can only be described as divine and is one that will live in the memories of all who attended, including the eight out of town guests who traveled all the way here just to join in on this experience.









The service was held at 6:00 a.m., which continues to be one of your favorite times of day (much to the dismay of your mommy and daddy). You were ecstatic that so many other people were up to join you. And that there was candlelight! And music! And lots of people ready and willing to hold you! We were told time and time again by church goers what a wonderful baby you were. And you truly were.

You were entertained throughout the weekend by all of your wonderful family. I can't explain how fulfilling it is to see how much others love you. It's like your daddy and I get to take our best kept secret and share it with others.







You are growing up so quickly these days and becoming more and more independent in the littlest ways. Your discovering parts of your toys that previously went unnoticed and that require fine motor skills to operate. Every time I see you figure out something new, I feel an enormous amount of pride. Part of this independence includes rolling to get everything you want. You're no longer content to sit up and play with the toys in front of you. Which makes taking your weekly picture lots of fun.









As I write today's letter, it seems only right to mark this date in time by letting you know that they captured Osama bin Laden earlier this week. While I know this means nothing to you, it's a date that I'm certain will be remembered in history and will provide you with a reference to a point in time when I sat down to write to you. You'll learn quickly time is a funny thing: it moves faster and faster as you grow. And just when you want to squeeze time tightly to make everything just stand still, it flows even quicker, like a wave you try to catch before it flows back into the ocean.

If it seems like I'm a little sentimental, it's probably because I am. We celebrated your 9-month birthday this past week. Which means you've been out as long as you were in. (I'm sure you love that concept.) And the thing is: every day with you is getting more and more fun. They could seriously bottle the joy you bring to us each day and it'd give Prozac a run for its money. It's why I want to freeze time: I can already see how this is going by way too fast.

Love,
Your sappy mommy :)

PS...I finally got a picture of your cute teeth: